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NEW YORK, April 7, 2013 – President Obama last week angered many with his comments about California Attorney General Kamala Harris.
Even Michelle Obama seems to have retaliated for the Presidential praise of the California attorney general.
Probably just coincidence, or Freudian Slip, but in an interview with CBS affiliate WCAX last Thursday, First Lady Michelle Obama plumb forgot she was married. She said, “Believe me, as a busy single mother – or, I shouldn’t say single – as a busy mother.” Okay, she quickly corrected herself, but what’s-his-name still has some explaining to do.
These days, it seems all we’re doing is explaining and apologizing. Ever since Gloria Steinem declared that women need men as much as a fish needs a bicycle, men have been properly put in our place and keep trying to make amends for 20 million years of sexism. Do the math. Women’s lib only began a few decades ago.
Please, give us a chance to learn the rules. Give us a minute to catch our breath.
The rules do keep changing. We can’t keep up, as is evidenced by two hot commentaries along these pages, one for Obama’s “sexist” remark, the other against.
It is folly for anyone to try to sort it out for the betterment of mankind (oops), but here is a reminder, anyway: A while back we were summoned to be gallant and chivalrous.
We were taught (most of us were) that girls and women were to be given flowers for their beauty of character and good looks.
Exactly what is wrong with this?
But one morning we were told that it is okay, even required, to tell a woman that she looks marvelous. Next morning, hey, we can go to jail for this!
Yesterday’s compliment is today’s complaint. We mean praise but get clobbered for making you feel “uncomfortable.”
We are finding this tough to follow.
If our culture has become so neutered, soon we may be forbidden from watching Guys and Dolls.